Ah, new love. Falling in love is one of the most exciting and beautiful experiences we can have in life. But let’s be real, when we were younger we could just fall in love with anyone we had a great emotional connection with, but we know better now. We know that we need to be pretty picky about who we allow ourselves to fall for so we don’t give multiple years of our lives to someone who isn’t right for us. So before you close your eyes and metaphorically trust fall into the arms of that guy you met a month ago on Bumble, take into consideration the following red flags before putting a day on hold with a wedding photographer.